Ex-wife manipulates and tries to play the “victim role” when she doesn’t get what she wants.
At my end, our finalized court would give me two weeks of vacation time with my daughter. I used a week earlier this year, the second week that my ex pressured me to use in July, saying that I was not liable for not using a summer holiday for my boy. There are a lot of emails she sent harassing me to the extent where I changed my already scheduled holiday week from December to July to satisfy her wishes. The ex-wife flies a lot for fun 3 times this year. Once my child has been sent to Cali to be with her parents so that she can go to the other place for a holiday. This December, do it again. I’ve been using my two weeks allotted to me this year. I’ve got two more weeks. I’d like me not to work, and I’d still see my child in my days, but I just don’t have the whole holiday for her. Ex is now beginning with emails and harassment telling me I need a record to know that you’re not planning to help and use another week to demonstrate support for her. I still pay child support that makes 4x my wage, and it’s expensive to have my child a full week’s vac, so I’m not breaking my court order. Can this be used against me, or do I obey her rules?